I write about the language that raises resilient, confident kids — the phrases and frameworks that do what lectures can’t. A book in progress, and a weekly essay on Substack.
Fifteen years at NBC Universal. Now writing weekly for parents on Substack.
Small Phrases. Deep Wisdom. Resilient Kids.
A practical guide to raising kids who can handle real life. Every chapter takes one memorable phrase and unpacks it, moving from a real scenario to the psychology underneath it and the tools a parent can use the same afternoon. Ancient wisdom, validated by modern science, in language you’d actually say out loud.
The chain of handed-down wisdom is broken. Sit-down talks can’t compete with a phone. Metaphors repair both breaks — because perspective is a variable, not a constant, and variables can be changed.
Self-regulation. The voice in a child’s own head, and how to help them answer it.
External pressure. Criticism, comparison, and a culture built to make kids feel not enough.
Meaning and growth. Turning hard moments into the tools a child keeps for life.
Weekly essays on the phrases that shape how kids see themselves and the world. Here are the latest.
Syd Smith spent fifteen years as a marketing executive at NBC Universal, building strategies for franchises that became cultural institutions — Universal Monsters, Jurassic Park, Seuss, and Marvel properties among them. She went on to create the McDonald’s Channel, an in-restaurant television network that reached millions of viewers daily and still operates nationally.
As Board Chair of Crestview Preparatory School through the pandemic, she watched kids come apart and parents struggle to find the words to help them. She’s also a mom. When her husband died of cancer in 2021 and the Eaton Canyon fire drove her from her home in 2025, her sons didn’t just survive. They thrived. This book is about the language that made the difference.
I write about the damage social media does to kids, so it would be a little hypocritical to live there. Substack and LinkedIn are where the conversations are substantive and the connections are real. Free to subscribe.
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Metaphorically Speaking is a completed nonfiction proposal with sample chapters and an active author platform. Use the form for the full proposal, sample chapters, or a rights and representation conversation, and I’ll respond personally.
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